The remainder of couples often spend just as much time away from each other and fill up their lives with work, hobbies, friends and flirtations that slowly lead to more. They've selected the wrong partner, they have no closeness, they feel stuck in a relationship without any spark, and if they are really lucky, they still try to respect each other. Those in committed relationships often are not doing it any better. Having what others think of as ideals, fairy tales, or fantasy. Having a smile on your face all day no matter what else happens during it. Sacrificing without even thinking of it as that.
Let us together bring back purity, virtue, valiance, honor, love, respect, commitment, passion, true happiness, having it all. So to the polygamy, the games, the lying, the cheating, the casual sex, the deception, the insecurities, the dysfunctional, the commitment issues and all the like, we say no more.
Rather, they will help in bringing back quality, healthy, life-changing relationships which inspire, endure and bring out romance. Neither this website nor the book being advertised on it is supposed to address simply lessons in romance, though I am sure they will help. Bonding over dinner has been replaced with squeezing in an extra television show. Group E-vites now have replaced hand-written letters, letters that used to be kept and re-read over and over. Quick text messages have replaced phone calls, through which people used to get to know each other. Romance is not simply dead, it has been neglected and is not even given a chance to breathe. They have divorced parents bad-mouthing each other, older siblings venting about relationships being a burden and love not being real, and the prior generations' dreams of love, marriage and family no longer even registering in their psyche. I feel bad most for the generation of kids currently in school, without positive role models in this realm. 'Friends with Benefits,' 'Open Relationships,' 'Booty Calls,' and much worse are terms thrown around by those who no longer believe, or never did in the first place.
Kids and adults alike, 18 or 80, are now engaging in all sorts of casual relationships, as movies get made glorifying them. Everywhere you look, people have given up on love, on marriage lasting, on commitment, on trust, on giving it your all. Yes, our entire nation is undergoing a Relationship Crisis as we speak.
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